Freedom is not given... but there are moments when it must be taken away

The movie poster for Amistad had a quote that seems to contradict it self, but I think it reveals some truth. "Freedom is not given, it is our right at birth, but there are moments where it must be taken."  freedom can be loosely defined as the ability to decide ones fate without the intrusion of another. The lack of freedom usually has a negative connotation, along with it comes the idea that someone or something is committing an act of oppression. But the lack of freedom is not only in relation to slavery or dictatorial government but it can be found in relationships. This lack of freedom doesn't equate to bad, but it in fact can be good. relationships allow us to unselfishly make choices that effect the lives of others as well as our own. the lack of freedom to do what ever we please allows us to fit into society and develop good relationships. we desire to be with other people and in that moment we are surrendering our freedom to others. In love the surrender of freedom can be even more significant because your are trusting this person with your freedom. you are bound to them, becoming part of a unit and  making decisions for another person hoping they have good intentions for you as well. committing to another person involves surrender which is scary but it allows for revelations that can not be made without the new experiences the other provides.